Can Crying Solve Problems...?

I do not believe anyone notices, but I find when I enter the M section of this site, I usually talk about/say that I'm crying...

Well, I have had a M for the past 3-4 days. Today would be the fourth, but It's not really reached M status.. It's the symptoms alright, but just a some head pressure.

Anyways.. I cry a lot. When I mean a lot I mean A LOT!!!
Right now I just let out a huge cry/scream in a way (I'm really hoping it wasn't too loud )
And some.. yes some of the head pressure went away.

I find it odd, because crying is a trigger for me, as i know for some of you too. But to relieve pressure.. I've never felt anything like it.

My next research project I will assign to myself will be to find out if different cries mean different meanings. It sounds weird, but (that I understand) there is a way of classifying baby cries, there must be meanings for adult cries. (Kind of like dreams have different meanings..)

Lillian

Perhaps this is how human language first developed -
by letting each other know how we were feeling, by different cry sounds?
I think this would make sense.
Crying is a bad, bad trigger for me (see my thread on the subject here) so I will not experiment, but good luck if you think it hepls.

BTW, Lilian- I think you get a prize for the most beautiful Avatar on this forum. Stunning.
Is that you?

Sorry, about you feeling so bad - there must be something in the air. I am fighting a strange predrome which makes me weary and fed up.


Senna

Senna wrote:Perhaps this is how human language first developed -
by letting each other know how we were feeling, by different cry sounds?
I think this would make sense.
Senna

You summed up what I was trying to find... trying to say. It has to be a language in itself.

About my avatar.. no that is not me.. but it is a picture I took of a wooden hanging plaque I have had for.. well ever.
I have had it for as long as I can remember. And from it I have adopted my personal motto.. on the bottom it says "Believe in yourself, and all things are possible"
I have always lived by that saying and I always will. Thank you for noticing it. I find it stunning as well.

Lillian

Ps. One way of cooping with strange, negative, unwanted feelings.. I try to surround myself with positive things or objects that bring me joy. I have that plaque hanging where I can see it right when I wake up from bed.

I just wrote in response to you, but with my woozy feeling I have pressed the wrong button and it is all gone. Will write a later as I feel too tired now - it is hot and humid here.

Senna.

I dont cry as much as I used to. When I first got CFS I couldnt stop.
It was ridiculous. It made my head much worse.

Now I dont cry with the pain very often.
If I do it usually gives me a headache (which I almost never get),
But eases the migraine....release of tension maybe?
It has to just spill over, I couldn't make it happen.

Crying is now from emotion. Upset, hurt feelings.
I am too damn sensitive.That makes me cry.
If it doesn't then it makes me angry.
But I also struggle to watch sad movies, animals in particular.
Then I end up with a worse head....

It is an enigma isnt it?

It seems my level of pain can influence my tears, but tears dont always influence my pain

pen wrote:Crying is now from emotion. Upset, hurt feelings.
I am too damn sensitive.That makes me cry.
If it doesn't then it makes me angry.
But I also struggle to watch sad movies, animals in particular.
Then I end up with a worse head....

It is an enigma isnt it?

It seems my level of pain can influence my tears, but tears dont always influence my pain

I'm exactly the same way, Pen.

Thanks for sharing that with me Becky. Its nice to have someone else that can understand.

Pen

yes definitely do cry at start of a mgraine and my husband always says youve got a bad head coming, not sure if it is a trigger or is it a sympton that a mig is already on its way??!! o yes and it is obvoiusly a lot worse when its apremenstral mig!!!