Sorry I haven't... anyone want to join my pity party??

Hi guys,

Have missed all of you! Have been going through even more hard times since the last time I posted. My EX still will not leave me alone, although he is now married and living the GOOD life! He took me to court (we didn't actually go, we settled because I couldn't afford an attorney) and now I have to pay him $$$ each month for not getting my vehicle refinanced.

On top of that, he was suppose to cover me under his insurance (I only used it when I went to my Neuroligist) not for prescriptions, although that KILLED me financially, until I got more with my current employer. My Dr's office called me yesterday and told me that the insurance company took back 3 visits of payments, now I'm stuck with having to pay $110.00 each month for 4 months. Yippee!!

Think I told you that the job I am currently in, Funeral Home, doesen't pay much at all. I lost $50,000 per year - talk about a culture shock!! So, with all my bills, my income doesn't come close to covering them. Still very depressed and hurting like crazy each day, plus having to work to try to pay some bills, has left me even more depressed than ever.

I am holding on until I get my vehicle refinanced (having a hard time because of my income) to finally report him to DMV for signing my name on the title of his vehicle when he traded it in. I cannot wait to give him a taste of his own medicine. Sorry if it sounds like revenge, but you know what, I don't care anymore. It's about time someone (me) gives him exactly what he deserves. DMV fraud is no joking matter. Mr. FBI man is going to get his!!

On a lighter side - I've met someone that I am very happy with. He's buying a house this month, so I will be moving out of my moms. Thank Goodness!

Anyway, just wanted to check in with you guys. I read your posts each day, but haven't felt like contributing, sorry

Hope all of you are doing well. Miss you guys so much!! I will keep all of you updated on what happens when I finally do get refinanced and go to DMV.

Take care all - lots of HUGS to each of you!

Hey Lost,

I was just thinking of you yesterday, but Inwas hoping younwere busy with happy things.

I have a friend in the same situation. Her hubby left her for another woman. Since then he has been trying to make her life miserable. Whereas he (and your hubby) should be feeling tremendous guilt, they're behaving like the " wronged" ones. What gives?

Charlotte - you are such a sweetie. Thanks for thinking about me. Means more than I can say!

Mine left me for another woman too. Of course, at the time, I didn't have a clue. Found out after we were divorced. Go figure - the a##.

I don't know why men at like this. It's a complete mystery to me. Like I said, he is now married to her, living the good life, and still will not leave me alone. Maybe he is having regrets Who knows, he would be the LAST person on this earth... - take that back - he wouldn't stand a chance with me again!!

As far as behaving like the wronged one. I thank it's guilt on his part. He has done ALL the women in his life like this, (even his own daughters) except for HER - waiting for that shoe to drop and it will, one day!

I feel for your friend. Tell her she is not alone.

Hugs sweetie!!

Hello Lost

I'm kinda busy and not much time to post right now, but I just wanted to say hello back and thank you for the update. It's good to see you back and with some good news.

Angela

Thanks Angela,

Thanks for your response sweetie. Appreciate it. Hope all is well with you ??

Since I posted this morning, found out today that my Neurologist is NO longer accepting patients. He is working at the hospital now full time. That's not the worst. Someone in the office cancelled my refills on my narcotics. You know, those things that give you some guality of life - in order to function daily and WORK.

Have no insurance, cannot get another Neurologist right now. So kinda lost for words and a plan. So's life I guess.

Oh that's absolutely awful! I have no other words or thoughts but that is just the worst... Hope you are able to get something figured out soon.

Thanks "B"

Yeah eventually. So glad we are fb Buddies! Thanks for the comments sweetie I couldn't come up with another status that fit. Oh, I could of, but wouldn't have been NICE on my part. Thinking, why am I being nice?? Oh, because that's who I am - sometimes I forget that...hehe

Me too. I get the situation. Nothing like yours but..oye, can anything else go wrong?

Also, what's up with us ladies thinking we have to be nice? I had a pain psychologist appt this morning and this topic came up...more so related to dealing with those "basic" suggestions on dealing with M from well intentioned clueless people but it still fit. I guess we treat others as we would like to be treated in hopes that it works out that way.

You know what they say, when life hands you lemons, make lemonade. But please throw some vodka in mine...

Wondered where you had got to. Now I know....

Not been on so much myself Head and PC problems

Good to see you back.

Pen

Thanks Pen - you are a sweetheart. Been here, just not posting - didn't have the energy. Will try to do better. Sometimes life gets you and gets you...then you get crushed, fall, run over, and runover again Keeping the faith...

Hugs!

To add insult to injury - I found out yesterday late afternnoon that my job/position might be ending

If that happens, well, what or how will I live?? Can't pay my bills (court costs because of what's his name, Dr. because of what's his name), will loose my vehicle, ect. It took me a year and a half to get this job. Was living off retirement, 401, 457 (because of someone...you know who). That's all gone, has been. Unemployment, yeah, but won't start to cover my bills.

So, I've already reached the down point, now what is left. How much further can someone keep being kicked in the butt??

Can't see a psychiatrist, Neurologist, you know the story. In the very immediate future will be coming off all meds, not titrating, but NO more of them left. Ones that I take daily. Now, isn't that gonna be you-know-what. Been on them for 37 years. UGH!!! Have faith, but at this time, i'm trying to locate it.

This doesn't include my head issues. Oh well, so sorry for my venting and pity party, but sometimes you have to give in to it and just feel sorry for yourself...then try like crazy to pick yourself up, brush off, and fight on!!

Hugs!

Okay - you win. I'll take my problems and shut up.

I just hope your job continues even though it seems like a losing battle with everything else that's happening. Money problems are stressful enough then you've got other things compounding it as well (like a certain person trying to make your life miserable). Just adding you to my prayer list and hang in there. Hopefully something will come along and make things look up.

"B"

You made me laugh! Thanks so much for your kind and sincere words sweetie. Deep down I know things will get better, but it's just this moment that I wonder.

I know soooo many people are worse off than I am. I cannot imagine.

But thank you again darlin. Like I said, LOVE talking to you on FB. You are such a great friend.

Lots of luv and hugs!!

I'm so sorry that all of this is happening to you! I've been mostly off-line while my parents were gone, so I'm just starting to catch up on old posts. It seems like one thing after another is hitting you hard! I just hope that something works out soon so that you can get your medical treatment, as well as keep your job. If your ex was supposed to cover your insurance, isn't there something you can do to force him to pay up on the neuro visits?